Dealing with Pressure...

Is it Tuesday already? That means it's time for the recap of Bachelorette...
Jillian and the three remaining men went to Maui this week. Did I mention that Maui is my favorite vacation spot ever? If you like to body surf, that is the place to go. Speaking of bodies, Kiptyn was the first to meet up with Jillian. They kissed all through a High Ropes challenge, ending with a leap of faith onto a trapeze. As the day progressed, Jill ended up in the fantasy suite with Kiptyn. This is a moment that I'm sure she has waited for, but the audience was left to stand behind closed doors as the candles romantically lit the bedroom. Aaaah....
Next day, Jillian's right back at it with Reid, flying high over the island. Her concern with Reid has always been his reluctance to tell her how he really feels and this date was no different. Wasn't it a little childish when he said, with outstretched arms, I like you thiiiisss much. Hmmm... She did, however, end up at the fantasy suite with Reid as well.
Final date went to Ed, who was the only one to tell her he loved her. Ed had his parents meet them in the afternoon since he missed introducing Jillian to them when he left the show to go back to his job (weak). A good time was had by all, and off to the fantasy suite they went. One of the steamiest scenes I've seen on Bachelor showed Jillian and Ed massaging oil over each others bodies on the rose petal laden bed. But alas, the pressure got to Ed and it affected his performance - not sure what that means, but I have my own conclusions. I have to make special mention of Ed's green and white 'man-kini'. What the he** was that?
Off to the rose ceremony, where Jillian told them all that she could see a life with all three of them, which I'm sure made them all feel warm and fuzzy inside. In the end, thank goodness, Reid was booted off the island. And then there were two. Called Kiptyn as the winner from day one, but I think if Ed can get a handle on his performance issues, he may be the one (despite the man-kini and the unfortunate baby blue blazer he wore at the rose ceremony).
As Reid is driving away, he is kicking himself for not opening up. NO KIDDING, REID, like where have you been over the past 800 episodes???
Well, that's my recap, and my only advice to future bachelors is: c'mon, give it up, what have you got to lose?!?!? No sense saying what you should have said and done as you are driving away in the limo. hmmmm. maybe I'm making it more simple than it is...